Bounce: by Epperson, Monica
A Heart With Two Homes: by Epperson, Monica
Charlie Anderson, Abercrombie, Barbara
Two girls who live with their mother adopt a cat who comes to their house every night. When he doesn't appear one night, they go looking for him and discover that he has two homes where he is loved and cared for, just like they do.
Taxi Taxi. Little Brown, Best, Cari
This story features a young Latina girl whose parents don't live together. Every Sunday, her father comes to visit in his bright yellow taxi.
Dinosaur's Divorce, Brown, Laurene Krasny and Brown, Marc
Little, Brown, 1986. Non-fiction, 29 pp. A family of dinosaurs provides the vehicle for helping children understand divorce, life with a single parent, visitation, living in two homes, relating to friends, and parents' dating and remarriage. The book has a section to help children identify their own feelings about divorce, and emphasizes what children can do to help themselves. A non-threatening and captivating book with superb illustrations. (Note: This book is read by the 7-9-year-olds during Session 2.)
Boundless Grace, Hoffman, Mary
Dial Books. Grace, a young African-American girl, lives with her mother and grandmother. But one day, she gets to go to Africa to visit her father.
It's Not Your Fault, Koko Bear, Lansky, Vicki
Book Peddlers, 1998. Fiction, 32 pp. (Available in English and Spanish.)
Koko Bear learns what divorce means, how to deal with changes, how to recognize and deal with feelings, and that divorce is not Kokos fault. Each page includes tips for parents.
Tots Are Non-Divorceable, Bonkowski, Sara
ACTA Publications, 1998. A Workbook for Parents and Their Children (Birth to 5 years)
Let's Talk About It: Divorce, Rogers, Fred
G.P. Putnam Sons, N.Y. 1996. Non-Fiction, 28 pp. This book uses simple direct language in addressing the worries and questions of young children. Beautiful photographs depict culturally diverse families.
Daddy's Roommate, Willhoite, Michael
Horn Book, Inc. 1991. This story's narrator begins with his parents' divorce and continues with the arrival of 'someone new at Daddy's house.' The young boy discusses his father's new living situation, in which the father and his gay roommate share eating, doing chores, playing, loving and living.
Good-Bye Daddy! , Weninger, Brigette
North-South Books, 1995. Tom hates it when Daddy leaves, until one night when his teddy bear whispers to him a story about a little bear who has problems just like his. Ages 4-8.
Mom and Dad Break Up, Prestine, Joan Singleton
Fearon Teacher Aids, 1996. Fiction, 32 pp. This book is better for kids who remember their parents breaking up. Beautiful illustrations and descriptions of how kids feel.
Always My Dad, Wyeth, Sharon Dennis
Alfred H. Knopf. A father whose visits are unpredictable but treasured reminds his family that, no matter where he is, he's always dad. Beautiful illustrations of an African-American family. Ages 4-8.
Mom and Dad Don't Live Together Anymore, Stinson, Kathy
Firefly Books, 1984. A simple text with effective illustrations portraying the feelings of a young girl.
When Daddy Comes to Visit, Burke, Maggie
Winston-Derek Pub., 1997. A story in rhyme about the imaginary games a child plays when his father visits on Sundays.
Daddy, Caines, Jeannette
Harper and Row, 1977. Fiction, 32 pp. This is a warmly told story about the joys of a child's visits with father and stepmother each Saturday. Although this book is not specifically about divorce, the loving and caring relationships portrayed in this African-American stepfamily offer the child reader a sense that he or she continues to be loved by his or her father after divorce and remarriage.
Priscilla Twice, Caseley, Judith
Greenwillow Books, 1995. Fiction, 30 pp.This book tells the story of a girl who feels split in half. It helps her understand in reassuring and even humorous ways that there is more than one kind of family.
Dear Mr. Henshaw, Cleary, Beverly
Avon Co., 1994. An award winning book about a 10-year old boy who writes letters to an unmet hero describing how he misses his father. Also available in Spanish. Ages 8-12.
Changing Families: A Guide for Kids and Grown-Ups, Fassler, David, Michele Lash, Sally Blakeslee Ives
VT: Waterfront Books, 1988. Non-fiction, 179 pp. This workbook is designed to be used by children and parents together. Through such activities as writing, drawing, and circling appropriate responses, children are able to express common thoughts and feelings about separation, divorce and stepfamilies.
My Life Turned Upside Down, But I Turned It Rightside Up, Field, Mary Blitzer and Hennie Share
Child Works Child Play, 1994. This novel book tells the story of a young girl whose parents are divorced and how she handles the challenges of living in two places. On every other page she tells about a problem she had and when the reader flips the page, the next page tells how she solved it. Told with humor and sensitivity, this child's feelings and concerns echo those of most children of divorce.
At Daddy's on Saturday, Girard, Linda Walvoord
IL: Albert Whitman & Co., 1987. Fiction, 29 pp. This book is especially appropriate for children who have been told about separation plans in which they will live primarily with their mother and visit their father regularly. The book reassures children that they will have an ongoing relationship with the father after he moves out of the family home.
When Mom and Dad Separate, Hiegaard, Marge
MN: Woodland Press, 1991. Non-fiction, 32 pp. In this book, children are encouraged to understand and express their feelings about separation and divorce through drawings. Space is reserved on each page for your child's drawings.
Through the Eyes of Children: Healing Stories for Children of Divorce, Johnston, Janet, Karen Breunig, Carla Garrity and Mitchell Baris
Free Press, 1997. This text contains 15 stories for school-age children dealing with various aspects of families being reorganized through the process of divorce. These stories help children cope through the use of allegory and the magical life of animals endowed with human emotions. Children find in these stories some answers to the issues they face in ways they can process and understand.
Megan's Two Houses, Jong, Erica
Dove Kids, 1996. Fiction. Struggling with the many problems faced by children of divorced families, eight-year-old Megan tries to adjust to having two rooms, two pets, two sets of possessions, and two potential stepparents.
What Can I do? A Book For Children of Divorce, Lowry, Danielle
Magination Press, 2001. Non-fiction, 28 pp. A short chapter book which follows Rosie from her parents' announcement of their intent to divorce through her attempts to reunify them, and eventually to her finding help from her teacher and school counselor.
Why are We Getting a Divorce?, Mayle, Peter
NY: Harmony Books, 1988. Non-fiction, 28 pp. In short, this book is packed with information that may be helpful for children. It puts divorce in perspective by addressing why people get married and have children, and how some parents come to the decision to divorce. It offers some ideas about the reorganizing family that are positive for children, such as having special time with each parent separately. It also encourages children to have some empathy for their parents, and to take responsibility for helping with household chores and caring for themselves.
My Parents Still Love Me Even Though They're Getting Divorced, Nightingale, Lois V., Ph.D.
Nightingale Rose Publications, 1997. Fiction, 128 pp. This book presents the struggles of four children facing their own parents' divorce and how they cope with the feelings and conflicts that inevitably arise. The enchanting fantasy story/workbook format helps children feel more comfortable dealing with a topic that many children find difficult to face, even when it is happening in their own family.
Don't Make Me Smile, Park, Barbara
Bullseye, 1990. An eleven-year-old boy feels his life will never be the same again after his parents divorce; people try to cheer him up to no avail. He goes for professional counseling. Ages 8-12.
The Case of the Scary Divorce, Pickhardt, C.E.
Magination Press, 1997. Fiction, 88pp. A ten-year old boy meets the mysterious 'Professor Jackson Skye: Helping Investigator' who enlists his aid in solving eight cases, each dealing with a problem he himself is experiencing during his parents' divorce. Ages 9-12.
Mom's House, Dad's House for Kids: How to feel at home in one home or two, Isolina Ricci, Ph.D.
Fireside Books, 2006. This is an upbeat,comprehensive and wise roadmap on divorce, stepfamilies, and self-care alive with tips, examples, exercises, stories, ways to solve problems, confidence builders, and 'words to try'. It also sensitively addresses issues like violence, absent parents, some legal aspects, dating, and parent conflict.
Divorced But Still My Parents, Thomas, Shirley, Ph.D. and Dorothy Rankin
Springboard Publications, 1998. Fiction, 90pp. This book is designed to be read by children and their parents together. Alternates between the story of Kristin the kitten whose parents decide to divorce and lessons for children. The interactive workbook is perfect for children because it keeps their attention while they learn more about divorce and themselves. This book educates children about the divorce process, identifies and validates their feelings, and leads them through the grief process in an organized and compassionate way.
Families, Tax, Meredith
Little, Brown, 1981. Non-fiction, 32 pp. This book is short, sweet and to the point. There are all kinds of families, and 'the main thing isn't where they live or how big they are... it's how much they love each other.' This book normalizes differences between many types of families, and is recommended for children who feel stigmatized by coming from a divorced family. It is culturally sensitive and the illustrations are great.
It's Not the End of the World, Blume, Judy,
Bradbury Press, 1972. Fiction, 169 pp. This excellent book is the story of how a girl and her siblings react to their parents' separation. Karen is concerned about how the family will manage financially and who will take care of them. She tries to get her parents to reconcile. Her 6-year-old sister develops fears of the dark and of being left alone. Her 14-year-old brother runs away for a few days. Karen meets another girl whose parents are divorced, and learns some new ways of coping from her.
Teens Are Not Divorceable: A Workbook for Divorced Parents and Their Teens, Bonkowski, Sara
ACTA Publications, 1990. An inviting format for teens. The author uses a non-judgmental attitude which helps her to tackle difficult topics such as adult dating and abuse. Ages 12-18.
The Divorce Express, Danziger, Paula
Paper Star, 1998. A 14-year-old girl lives in a joint parenting situation. Problems arise when her mom plans to marry. After Phoebe's parents divorce she has to travel every Sunday to see her dad. Just when she thinks she has a handle on it all, her mom makes a decision that will change everything again. Ages 12-15.
This is Me and My Two Families, Evans, Marla D.
Magination Press, 2000. An awareness scrapbook/journal for kids living in two separate families.
The Kids' Book of Divorce: By, For and About Kids, Fayerweather Street School
Edited by E. Rofes, Random House, 1982. Twenty children, aged 11-14, discuss various aspects of divorce including custody arrangements, parents' boyfriends and girlfriends, how they were first told abut their parents' divorce and how divorce has changed them.
Billie's World, Finkel, Kim Grossman
My Journey Books, 2005, 140pp. A young girl's journey through her parent's surprising divorce and the challenges of being a preteen. This novel is based on the author's experiences as a child of divorce. For more information visit www.billiesworld.com.
My Parents Are Divorced, Too, Ford, Melanie, Annie and Steven,
Magination Press, 1997, 54 pp. Three stepsiblings in a blended family discuss their experiences, and those of friends, with divorce and remarriage. These young authors write about their own experiences frankly and clearly, in a way that can be understood by young readers. More than just a recounting of experiences it is a guidebook for getting adjusted to a new life, and a means for opening new avenues of communicate at a difficult time in everyone's life. Ages 8-12.
Will Dad Ever Move Back Home?, Hogen, Paula Z
Raintree Steck-Vaughn, 1995, 31 pp. This book presents many of the emotions experienced by children in divorcing families. It also includes realistic life changes. The child learns how to share his or her feelings and the parents learn how to respond in helpful ways. Ages 9-12.
How to Survive Your Parents' Divorce, Kimball, Gayle, Ph.D.
Equality Press, 1994. 268 young people share how they coped with their parents' divorce. Includes comments from 20 counselors who work with youth whose parents are divorcing. Illustrations, bibliography and resource lists.
Bad, Badder, Baddest, Voigt, Cynthia
Kirkus Associates, 1997. Bad Girls Mikey and Margalo are now in the sixth grade. The plot centers on Mikey's parents impending divorce and her plotting, with Margalo's help, to prevent it - mainly so their own lives will not be disrupted by a move. Ages 9-12.
The Hatchet, Paulsen, Gary
Noguer y Caralt Editores, S.A., 1996. Fiction. (In Spanish: El Hacha.) After a plane crash, thirteen-year old Brian spends fifty-four days in the wilderness, learning to survive with only the aid of a hatchet given him by his mother, and learning also to survive his parents' divorce.
The Good Divorce: Keeping Your Family Together When Your Marriage Comes Apart, Ahrons, Constance R.
HarperCollins, 1994. Dr. Ahrons shows couples how they can move beyond the confusing, even terrifying early stages of breakup and learn to deal with the transition from a nuclear to a 'binuclear' family-one that spans two households and continues to meet the needs of children.
Blended Family Advice, Dudley, Shirley Cress Dudleya
Do you and your new spouse argue about how to parent the kids? Does your ex-spouse sabotage your relationship with your new love? Does the look of complete helplessness in your child create a sense of despair in you? Are you struggling to create a sense of unity in your new stepfamily? Dudley is a licensed professional counselor with two master's degrees. One in marriage and family counseling, and another in education. As an author, speaker and family coach to individuals, couples and families, she has listened to countless families struggle to have a happy and successful blended family. She also lives in a blended family herself.
Children of Divorce: A Developmental Approach to Residence and Visitation, Baris, Mitchell and Carla Garrity
Psytec Corporation, 1988.
Caught in the Middle: Protecting the Children of High Conflict Divorce, Garrity, Carla B. and Baris, Mitchell A.
Lexington Books, 1994. This book explains the nuances of how high-conflict divorce affects childrena and then provides concrete strategies for minimizing the damage.
Back in Control, Bodenhamer, Gregory
Prentice Hall, 1983. This book was designed for parents who feel out of control with their kids. It teaches how to take back the control by using parental authority.
Parenting Teenagers, Denkmeyer and McKay
American Guidance Service, 1989. A guidebook for improving parent-teen relationships based on STEP/teen (Systematic Training for Effective Parenting of Teens). It is structured like a classroom textbook with summaries and tests at the end of each chapter.
Parents' Handbook, Dinkmeyer Sr., Don
American Guidance Service, 1989. Also based on STEP (Systematic Training for Effective Parenting of Teens), this handbook offers a democratic philosophy about child training. It follows the same format as the book described above.
How to Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen So Kids Will Talk, Farber and Mazlish
Avon, 1980. A basic yet effective step-by-step book which teaches parents how to communicate with kids. Cartoons and practice exercises help make this book fun, interactive, and easy to get through.
The Parents' Book About Divorce, Gardner, Richard A., M.D.
Doubleday, 1977. This book provides extensive coverage of the many problems that parents must attend to when dealing with children's reactions to separation and divorce. It gives detailed descriptions of how problems may come about, and offers ways to prevent them.
Between Parent and Child, Ginott, Hiam
Avon, 1961. Although written in the early 60's, this practical guide for talking to and dealing with your children is still useful today. It is clearly written, gives specific advice, and offers basic principles for raising children.
Between Parent and Teenager, Ginott, Haim G.
Avon, 1969. The second Ginott book was written in the late 60's and is just as valuable as the first. In this book, Ginott offers straightforward advice about conflicts, communication, and understanding between parents and young adults.
Interventions for Children of Divorce., Hodges, William
John Wiley & Sons, 1986. This book is intended to provide mental health professionals, lawyers and judges with principles for working with children of divorce, but it is also a valuable reference for parents. It touches on a wide range of areas related to divorce, and focuses on the legal aspects that affect families.
The New Creative Divorce, Kantzler, Mel and Kantzler, Patricia
Adams Media Corporation, 1999. The author of this book has led divorce seminars and dealt with divorce himself. He talks about coping with the trauma of divorce and the different phases one goes through in the process. He gives life after divorce an optimistic look by framing it as a renewal of life as a single person.